Filling in the Pieces
I met the people who would end up raising me, providing for me, sending me to school, and later in life, the woman who sold her gold jewelry to help me pay for this trip, when I was 2 months old. I know them as my parents and they are the only people that I would ever call Mom and Dad. They are divorced now, but married when they were contacted on January 29, 1990, the day I was born. At this time, they were told to come and get me. I was born in and named after the Clinica De Lourdes, which is located in Miraflores, Peru. This is all I knew about my short life in Peru. Never before have I contacted my birthparents, nor do I know any information about them. All I have is a copy of an Identification card from my mother. I look a lot like her.
This is my first return to the country that I’ve been missing for 18 years of my life. When people find out that I was adopted they immediately ask if I am going to try to contact my biological parents while I am here in Peru. However, I don’t plan on finding them this time around because I feel that that experience should be shared with my mother who raised me and gave up many opportunities of her own in order for me to have the life I’ve been given.
Since my parents had been to Peru before, both my mother and father made sure I was well prepared for my trip. Before they set me off, they made sure had copies of my passport, no liquids in my carry on bag, food poisoning medicine, and outlet converters. My parents warned me not to drink the water, even when brushing my teeth. Repetitively on the plane I thought in my head ‘botella de agua, botella de aqua’ in hope to memorize the words for bottled water. Upon my arrival to Peru Elio informed me that when ordering water they ask ‘con gas’ or ‘sin gas’ Meaning carbonated or non-carbonated. This information has been very helpful as I have bought at least one bottle of non “gassy” water every day since my arrival. Derek, a fellow trip mate, spent his second day in Peru sick in the bathroom of his hotel room. Good thing my parents sent me prepared, because I was able to give him two Cipro pills to hold him off until someone could make it to la pharmacia. My father knew of Cipro because during his stay he had gotten food sickness and had to fly back to the States early.
My parents spent six months in Lima, and from pictures they have shown me, I know they experienced a lot. They were two young white Americans who didn’t speak Spanish but as a group, with other adopting families, and the help from a lady named Mirasol, they were able to successfully complete the adoption. Now, at age 19, I am here visiting for the first time, experiencing and learning all I can about my nationality for the two weeks of my stay. I am glad to be sharing the experience with my good friend Lauren Brostowitz.












